Therefore, my friendships became deeper and more meaningful after college than before college. I also met people from around the world in college, which expanded my mind and my awareness of other cultures. In high school I mostly had friends from similar backgrounds as me, whereas after college I mostly have friends from diverse cultural and religious backgrounds. Finally, I am a different person psychologically since entering college: whereas I was dependent, egocentric, and lacked a clear sense of identity before university, now I have a strong sense of self and a clear vision of my future. My pre-college self was more self-absorbed than I am now that I am in university. Whereas I thought mostly of myself before, now I think a lot about worldly issues and matters of global importance like pollution and war. I am also more interested in other people on a personal level than I was in high school, where I could afford to be insular. I can't afford to be insular in college because being insular would mean never making new friends. I am also far more confident and goal-oriented in college than I was in high school. In high school I went through the motions in class, not really understanding the relevance of an academic subject to the "real world." Now that I feel I am entering the real world, I take note of what I am learning and apply what I learn in class to how I live my life. I have a stronger sense of self now than I had when I was in high school and my identity...
As a result I am more outgoing and amicable. However, because college life entails having many responsibilities I did not have while in high school I am also more worried and anxious than I was in high school. Being worries and anxious are part of the maturation experience and one of the hallmarks of transitioning from childhood to adulthood.Our semester plans gives you unlimited, unrestricted access to our entire library of resources —writing tools, guides, example essays, tutorials, class notes, and more.
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